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Conspiracy Theory

Most people that try to diet fail.  I have.  People get discouraged too easily and give up.  I don’t.  I keep trying because I learn something from every failure. Compliance with a nutrition or an exercise program can be extremely challenging.  Self control is a finite resource.  If we use all our self control trying to beat a craving for pizza, we stand a good chance of falling victim to the next grilled cheese that crosses our path.

I have a guilty pleasure of reading and listening to books about self improvement.  Jack Canfield, Bob Proctor, Zig Ziglar, Tony Robbins, Napoleon Hill, etc. are just a few of the authors that I turn to for words of encouragement. It so happens that this month I have been doing “Flexible Dieting” or “Counting Macros” and coincidentally I started listening to a Zig Ziglar book.  I don’t know if it’s related or not, but I find it much easier to stay compliant and exercise self control when listening to Ziglar.  Maybe the two things aren’t related but I think there is some benefit to having someone tell you how awesome you when you want to get down on yourself and cheat on your diet.

There is power in words and power in community and power in who you surround yourself with.  Doing a nutrition challenge with the gym is good when everyone is in communication and supporting each other.  It feels more normal when you’re eating out with friends and you all order salads and pull out your phones and take pictures of your food and plug your meal into your apps.  Positive self talk is a great tool to keep you focused as well.  I heard that listening to motivational speeches increases your dopamine, endorphin and seratonin levels.  So that might help explain that this might be more than a coincidence.

If you want to succeed you have to conspire and plan.  Surround yourself with the right people and fill your ears and brain with the right words and thoughts.  Every little bit helps.

 

Obsession

ob·ses·sion
/əbˈseSHən/

noun. 1) the domination of one’s thoughts or feelings by a persistent idea, image, desire, etc. 2) a state in which someone thinks about someone or something constantly or frequently especially in a way that is not normal.

The second definition makes obsession sound pejorative: “not normal”.  Sure obsession can be bad, but there are some that would call obsession “commitment” or “focus” which are great qualities.

My obsession recently has been with counting macros.  I’ve done the Zone diet on and off for many years, so I am familiar with many of the concepts in “Flexible Dieting” or “Counting Macros”.  However, finding a new prescription and using an app on my phone to track everything and preparing the night before has brought a new level of obsession to my food game.  Is a normal? Probably not.  Is it an eating disorder?  No.  It’s just a quest for a deeper level of understanding.

Any quest for deeper knowledge will take on a form of obsession as the student thinks constantly about the topic.  New levels of understanding and knowledge can only be achieved through obsession.  Anybody that is an expert at something at some point was obsessed with that something.  My goal to understand my diet inside and out and to use nutrition to fuel my life and my performance is currently in that process of obsession.  After a month of this I hope to be far more knowledgable and intelligent with regards to my nutrition.  I don’t know that the obsession will last but the knowledge, once acquired, will be with me forever.

What’s your obsession?

 

 

The Four Agreements

One of  my favorite books is The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz.  If you haven’t read it, go get a copy now and read it. It distills some of the best ancient wisdom into four simple truths.  If you make a pact with yourself to live by them, your life will be vastly improved.

“The First Agreement: Be Impeccable with Your Word

The Second Agreement: Don’t Take Anything Personally

The Third Agreement: Don’t Make Assumptions

The Fourth Agreement: Always Do Your Best”

Read this list over and over again.  It is easy to imagine a situation where a failure in any one of these could lead to making a bad situation worse.  Today I am reflecting on the second agreement: don’t take anything personally.  I spend a lot of time on social media and there are a lot of examples where people get personally invested in arguments on the internet.  What a waste of time.  I like good debate and I am glad the internet allows everyone to voice their opinions. However, I am constantly challenging myself not to take things personally.  I can’t control what you say, I can only control how I react to what you say.

 

 

Mental Nutrition

Feed your brain with nutritious thoughts.  In the same way you feed your stomach with nutritious foods, you should feed your brain with good, wholesome thoughts.  Little reminders of beauty, such as a lovely picture or a sweet song, or motivating phrases written on your bathroom mirror will help you maintain a positive outlook throughout the day.

A picture of my son on my phone’s lock screen cheers me up and reminds me to be the best version of myself for him.  Listening to a motivational audiobook while I drive helps get me excited for work.  Even just remembering to smile during a workout can make all the difference.  All these triggers help me stay focused and positive.

The most important time to feed your brain is right when you wake up. Start your day with something positive. Try to set your favorite song as your alarm.   Put a picture or vision board next to your bed so it’s the first thing you see when you wake up.  Before you jump out of bed, close your eyes and take a moment to be grateful for someone or something.  Think of two or three things that you will do that will make the day a total success. It’s like tuning your instrument before you go on stage.  Make sure your brain is focused on the good things in your life and your goals.

The next best time to feed your brain is right before you go to sleep.  Create a ritual at night that allows you to reflect on the best parts of your day and reminds you of the great things you will do when you wake up.  Your brain uses your sleep time to assimilate and make sense of things and solve problems.  So if you plant a good seed right before bed, it’ll grow overnight.

Your brain is going to get hungry and tired throughout the day as well so take a moment every day to quiet down, take a few breaths and give yourself a positive self-talk.  Just remind yourself that you are doing your best and trying your hardest.

Ready, Fire, Aim!

The concept of “Ready, Fire, Aim” is simple, you have to act first, see how far off target you are, and then make proper adjustments.  This is how real life works.  In real life we are not snipers.  We do not abide by “One Shot, One Kill.”  In life we can’t plan and plan and plan and then just execute once and be perfect.  Our lives are lived paddling a boat in a storm.  Life is constantly conspiring to push us off course and our job is to keep redirecting and steering ourselves back toward the lighthouse.

I started counting my macros last week.  I executed the plan to a “T” all week.  Every day I was supposed to hit my goal of 185g of protein, 204g of carbohydrates, and 53g of fat.  I was within 2 or 3 g of my goal every day.  You know what happened.  I started losing weight for a few days and then it stopped and went back up.  That’s not how it’s supposed to work.  Week 1 was a failure. If I had a “one shot, one kill” mindset, I would say, “This shit didn’t work. It’s not for me.  Counting macros sucks. I quit.”  However, I embrace the mindset of “ready, fire, aim” and think, “Something is not right, I have to recalculate my macros and try again.”

If every time you eat a slice of pizza, you think to yourself, “My diet is ruined, I might as well eat the whole pie.”  You will surely never hit your target.  If you instead say to yourself, “That slice threw me off course, what do I have to do to get back on course.”  You will be able to achieve your goals and enjoy a slice or two along the way.

 

Second Best

I don’t think of myself as someone who possesses patience. I practice instant gratification.  It’s worked for me generally speaking, but I strive to be more patient and to embrace the struggle.  To play the long game has many advantages and there are just some things that can’t be rushed: like strength.  As crossfitters, we all strive to be stronger, but our bodies can only adapt so fast.  We don’t just go to 3 classes a week and suddenly squat 500lbs.  That kind of strength is hard-won.  I’m not suggesting we all strive to squat 500lbs, but I do think we all should put in the time and effort to grow stronger.  That means you need a commitment.  You need a habit.  You need motivation.  You need to do a lot of short-term efforts that will lead to long-term gains.

Like I said, I practice instant gratification and when I look at myself, I can say “I wish I’d been more patient. I wish I had been more diligent.  I wish I hadn’t sacrificed the long-term gain for the short-term satisfaction.”  Like someone that wished they had invested in the market when it was low.  But there’s an old Chinese proverb, “The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.”  I can’t change the past.  I can only make a better choice right now to go and lift some weights, to do some pull-ups and to get my heartrate up.  The second best time to invest your your strength is right now.

Shining Eyes

I was listening to Benjamin Zander, the conductor of the Boston Philharmonic, talk about a realization he had: the conductor is the only member of the orchestra that doesn’t make a sound.  When Zander had this realization, it changed the way he viewed his job and his demeanor.  Conductors have traditionally had a totalitarian rule over the orchestra and have used the podium to exert power and influence.  Zander realized that his job was to find the best way to get the musicians to express the music as beautifully as possible.  Instead of bending the orchestra to his will, he builds rapport with the musicians and finds ways to elicit their passion for the music.

Upon hearing this story it was immediately obvious how this applies to coaching.  My job as a coach is not to just yell and “no rep” people. My job is to bring out the best of my athletes and ignite their passion to do the work and be their best.  Everyone goes to a gym for a reason. Obviously to get fit, but there’s more than that.  They want to be a part of the community.  They want to be recognized for their efforts.  They want to express themselves physically.  The coach’s job is to facilitate their passions and give them the space to express themselves.

We should strive to be a facilitator of other people’s passions: give people permission to be their best selves. Our job is to help facilitate that relationship between the athlete and themselves, their body, the gym, the program and the community. How to do that is the real trick.  If we reframe our purpose we show up differently, we act differently.  There is a world of possibilities available to us and our clients if we show up as the coach that draws out the greatness in people as opposed to the coach that just yells.

“I have a definition of success. For me, it’s very simple. It’s not about wealth and fame and power. It’s about how many shining eyes I have around me.” Benjamin Zander

Driving at Night

You can’t see your destination when you’re driving at night, all you can see is what’s directly in front of you in the beam of your lights.  If you apply this metaphor to how you approach big projects, you can accomplish much more than you realize.

I heard Jocko Willink tell a story of how many Navy Seals survived Hell Week.  The ones that thought about making it to the end of the week couldn’t last and they quit.  The candidates that had success set their gaze to the next achievable objective: the next meal.  Every few hours they were given a short break for food, if they could just make it to their next meal, then they could get a respite and gain momentum to carry them through to the end.

As I contemplate doing the CrossFit Games Open Workout 16.1, I am going in with the same mindset.  I will only look as far as my headlights can cast their beam. One small achievable objective after another.  Twenty-five feet of lunges takes me eight steps.  That’s not hard.  Eight burpees is not that bad.  Another set of lunges is something I can do.  Eight pull-ups is do-able.  It’s easy to look at the clock and get discouraged but if I just keep my focus on the small set at hand, I’ll get through it.  You will too.  Just imagine you’re driving at night.

Do The Bare Minimum

I don’t want you to be an underachiever.  And you won’t be if you decide to do the bare minimum.  What I am advocating is a choice to take action: the least amount that you can and then build momentum.  What you are going to do is create a habit of action that leads to motivation that leads to success.

When I wake up, I’m tired and sore and my muscles and joints ache.  It’s what I call, “getting old.”  When I go to the gym, I read the workout on the board and I am often terrified inside.  When it comes time to cook, I am often tempted to go to seamless and just have food delivered.  How do I overcome the inertia? I take action in the right direction, but I start with the least amount of action.  It takes some guts to jump into the deep end of a freezing cold pool, it’s not impossible, but it often takes some convincing.  It takes next to no convincing to dip your toe in the cold water. 

Motivation follows action.  Act first.  Having a small warmup routine gets me moving and gets me in action.  Once I’m in action and moving, I then get motivated to start doing more.  It’s like dipping your toe in the water.  It’s cold but you quickly acclimate.  Then you feel refreshed and put both feet in.  Then you start to go deeper and eventually, you’re in the pool swimming.

Here is a list of things I do to overcome the inertia:

  • Grab a theraband and I start doing some shoulder warmups.
  • Use a Yoga Tune Up therapy ball and roll out the bottom of my feet.
  • Do an easy yoga pose like child’s pose.
  • Close your eyes and take the longest slowest breath you can (inhale and exhale).
  • Open the fridge and find some protein you want to eat.

Once I take a small step in the right direction the next steps often follow and before I know it I have made some progress.  Just take small steps in the right direction.  Take a goal and subdivide it until you find the smallest step you can take.  If you want to start meditating, the smallest step is to close your eyes and take one deep breath.  More will follow.  If you want a pull-up the smallest step you can take is to warm up your shoulders, once they are warm, you will be motivated to do more exercises. The bare minimum of a journey of a thousand miles is a single step.  Start there.

Shoulders Up?

There is a debate that is still raging on about whether to push your shoulders up or pull them down. This is in reference to the overhead position seen in handstands and some weightlifting moves.  Many schools of thought say the shoulder, or more specifically the scapula, should be depressed when overhead because that is more stable. However, gymnastics and weightlifting coaches often cue “push the shoulders up into your ears.”

What is the correct answer? It depends.  I will examine this from several perspectives.

As an initial point of reference, I refer the reader to Star Trek 2: The Wrath of Khan.  Khan was defeated in the end, because he suffered from two-dimension thinking.  Kirk was able to get the jump on Khan by using three-dimensional maneuvers.  In order to understand the shoulder we must think in three-dimensions.

Overhead we seek to create stability.  The body has two basic ways to create stability: active and passive.  Our body defaults to a passive stability all the time: when we lean our hip over when standing in line; when we rest our chin on our chest while texting; or when the arch of our foot collapses and rests on the ground.  A passive stability is where a joint moves into some end range where, because of bone-on-bone restrictions, it can no longer move and is therefore “stable.”  An active stability is created with muscles and bones working together to create position that is strong yet also has movement options.  For example, externally rotating the hips to create stability in the hips that also allows for strong stable hip movement.  See squatting.

The shoulder, much like the hip benefits from active stability through external rotation.  That’s why our rotator cuff is so important: the Teres Minor and Infraspinatus externally rotate the humerus to create stability.  That is not the only mechanism for stability.  The shoulder is a complex system made up of the humerus, scapula and clavicle.  The scapula and clavicle anchor themselves on the axial skeleton (spine and ribs) and, therefore, the core musculature must stabilize the axial skeleton for the scapula and clavicle to be secure and stable.  A weak core leads to a weak shoulder.

A cue is just a cue.  When you hear the cue “shoulders up”, you shouldn’t mistake that for complex anatomical discourse.  It’s merely a direction designed to elicit as certain action from the athlete.  For example, if I cue someone to lift their chest up during a squat, I don’t care about their chest.  I care about their back and that I see it rounding.  Asking the athlete to lift their chest can create a series of events by which they engage their spinal erectors and bring their spine back to neutral or at least stop the flexion fault that is occurring.  It is a very quick shorthand to fix a fault.  Cues can create other faults.  I might cue an athlete to lift their chest and a series of events might unfold where the athlete goes into over extension of the spine and rocks their weight forward onto their toes.  That is a cue misapplied.  it’s not the cue’s fault, it was merely the wrong cue for that athlete.

When I cue “shoulders up” what do I want and what do I not want?  I want my athletes to actively push against gravity.  Always.  I am strength and conditioning coach and overcoming gravity is the means by which people get stronger. In a plank position, I want my athletes to push down on the ground until the scapula protract and their upper back starts to look slightly rounded (kyphotic).  I also want them to externally rotate so that the pits of their elbows face forward.  So I verbally cue “push the ground down.”  I also might give them a tactile cue of putting my hand on their upper back and tell them to push their upper back into my hand.  I would also tell them to screw their hands into the ground to create external rotation.

When the athlete goes into a handstand the same holds true.  I want the athlete to push the ground down.  I want them to externally rotate.  This is optimal.  What we see is that shoulder flexion and external rotation are both necessary components but there is a tension that exists between them, however they are not at odds.  If I cue “shoulders up” it is because I see an athlete that is not pushing down into the ground and is lazy through the shoulders.  However, I do not want to see my athlete push their shoulders so far up that they internally rotate and lose stability.  As is always the case when working with humans, they are fallible and they can misinterpret directions.

What we see can be misinterpreted.  The eye is fallible.  We need to embody these techniques and it is impossible to understand lifting heavy without lifting heavy.  We can get away with a lot of things that seem right in theory but if that theory does not work when applied to maximal loads then the theory was wrong.

Here is what I see: when I drive my shoulder all the way up to my ear, my humerus internal rotates.  When I actively externally rotate, the humerus screws itself back in and the shoulder appears to drop slightly.  When doing this in the mirror, it looks like I am depressing my scapula.  Under load we might end up in essentially in the same place but the muscular action is quite different and important.  Under heavy load the need to tell an athlete to depress is obviated by the fact that A HEAVY FUCKING LOAD IS PUSHING DOWN ON THE ATHLETE!  The athlete’s job is to PUSH AGAINST THE HEAVY LOAD.  This action of pushing is tempered by the act of also having to externally rotate.   Thus the cue would be to “break the bar.”  The best analogy I can give is to that of a screw vs. a nail.  We do not merely hammer our shoulders up into position, we push up and screw in to create stability.  It’s important that we remember that we are working in three dimensions and there is not one simple cue that will fix everything.

Cueing the Overhead Position from Force Distance Time on Vimeo.

Overhead strength from Force Distance Time on Vimeo.